If you are involved in a long-term relationship or you are married then you should know that over 50% of marriages end and statistics tell us that four out of every five marriages run into problems and many cannot be resurrected. This is a sad statistic for anyone to read about and so we really do need to pull out all of the stops to make sure that our relationship doesn’t end up being a negative statistic as well. Many issues form in the bedroom because after a time, we get used to each other and then we tend to take each other for granted. This is our first big mistake and we need to do what we can to keep activities in the bedroom exciting so that we look forward to the next time.
There are a number of things that are taboo when it comes to the bedroom and many couples do not feel comfortable talking about them. One such thing is sex toys and even though these items bring some much-needed excitement into the boudoir, many couples shun them because of the unnecessary stigma attached to them. Sex toys have been saving marriages and relationships for many years now and so if you are finding that your relationship is running into problems then you might consider incorporating them into your sexual routines. This is just one way to spice up your relationship and here are a few more.
- Be open to new things – This will include making use of sex toys in the bedroom, but the thing that you have to remember here is that you need to talk to your partner first before you make a purchase. Just taking out a sex toy at the beginning or in the middle of your lovemaking is not a good idea at all and you may scare your partner off for good.
- Have an affair – I am not encouraging you to have an affair outside of your relationship, but I am encouraging you to role-play and to have an imagined affair with your partner. The only thing that is restricting what can happen in this make-believe affair is you and your partner’s imagination.
- Go back to what works – Think back to when you were much younger and when you met your partner for the first time. Back then you didn’t think twice about kissing your partner in public and you certainly wanted to hold their hand while walking around your local town or city. Start doing this again to let your partner know how much they mean to you and try to bring out the inner teenager inside all of us.
Other little things that you can do are organising date nights with your partner so that you actually come to pick them up and knock on the front door of your home to take them out for the evening. Little things like this will help to make your relationship special again and hopefully the bonds will be stronger.
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